February-14 topics

Daily Readings and Inspirations

Daily Reflections: EXPECTATIONS vs. DEMANDS 

1. Burn the idea into the consciousness of every man that he can get well regardless of anyone. The only condition is that he trust in God and clean house. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 98 

2. Dealing with expectations is a frequent topic at meetings. It isn't wrong to expect progress of myself, good things from life, or decent treatment from others. 

3. Where I get into trouble is when my expectations become demands. I will fall short of what I wish to be  and situations will go in ways I do not like, because people will let me down sometimes. The only  question is: "What am I going to about it?" Wallow in self-pity or anger; retaliate and make a bad  situation worse; or will I trust in God's power to bring blessings on the messes in which I find myself?  Will I ask Him what I should be learning; do I keep on doing the right things I know how to do, no matter  what; do I take the time to share my faith and blessings with others? 

NA Just For Today:  Honesty And Spirituality 

1. "The right to a God of your understanding is total and without any catches. Because we have this right, it  is necessary to be honest about our belief if we are to grow spiritually" Basic Text, p. 25 

2. In meetings, over refreshments, in talks with our sponsor, we hear our NA friends talking about the way  they understand their Higher Power. It would be easy to "go with the flow;" adopting someone else's  beliefs. But just as no one else can recover for us, so no one else's spirituality can substitute for our own.  We must honestly search for an understanding of God that truly works for us. 

3. Many of us begin that search with prayer and meditation, and continue with our experiences in recovery.  Have there been instances where we have been given power beyond our own to face life's challenges?  When we have quietly sought direction in times of trouble, have we found it? What kind of Power do we  believe has guided and strengthened us? What kind of Power do we seek? With the answers to these 

4. questions, we will understand our Higher Power well enough to feel safe and confident about asking it to  care for our will and lives. 

5. A borrowed understanding of God may do on a short haul. But in the long run, we must come to our own  understanding of a Higher Power, for it is that Power which will carry us through our recovery. 

Just for today: I seek a Power greater than myself that can help me grow spiritually. Today, I will  examine my beliefs honestly and come to my own understanding of God.

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