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recovery is love · 2024-08-03T18:10:00.342Z

live page Table of contents A(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.507ln2lygkvn) Act/action(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.xr8ktwq9gtgb) Addiction(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.7kbczebibxgb) Advice(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.jagdylbv1gmf) Arresting(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.xq4mrohf6mae) attitude(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.4o7yn7k71gh) Amends(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.jxyrw6dq3fk) B(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.rv4mmk2bugnq) Balance(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.emznl63f9ajy) Boundaries(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.4q8o37cm26na) Busy(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.b0ceq37c1cgv) C(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.1i60dklvehub) career(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.bouri2gsaslp) control(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.3gyfr0lqn5sw) Common welfare(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.5awlnqlaljc3) Clarity(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.tot9cfgd4e3p) coping(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.2s7krdlrxisi) Charter defeats(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.ghsvkf8ucs1z) D(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.tu6kzaije45o) Demoralization(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.e8z31djfirms) Destination(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.hef33d8bwuny) Disease(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.ropaxk8ns4iw) E(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.mb7wubqnfujl) Ego(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.vyey2uchk698) Expectations(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.wbb4x8bk309z) extreme(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.h710geuckuiq) Experience(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.3rfulhu2am4m) F(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.fxrz5hg5bp3k) Faith(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.t9bdf36cp29w) Fellowship(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.lcozjyd91oj3) G(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.v0wdk4r0ozdf) God(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.dkz6lv8c60sq) Group(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.c04f8daf77v) H(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.it2r01yc6x10) How(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.yy6yi9uiebzv) hope(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.d7fx9ljdtd5b) Higher power(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.ihrk3o97xp3r) I(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.5sidledfiiyz) Importance(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.ddym13xa25j) Isolating(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.ej10kx8qdg1v) J(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.dh8iknuxcfgp) Journey(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.dnaum7rq6wew) Job(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.ow8rxulq5wed) K(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.xjljydldhpm1) L(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.f4xnbi2tv3kk) Leader(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.qh8oej1ggf1k) M(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.q7fo32ukh3f6) manifested(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.onb1pg9w814x) N(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.l3g9m5oqzc14) O(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.qru92vfkz214) Obsessing(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.iscmxrgmwkaw) P(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.meqxnic98gvz) Pain(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.o86g0qxfexjv) painstaking(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.5aup5vv6vylz) Practicing(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.te1sa514w4vt) ● principle 7: Being able to have a sense of understanding from others(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.9eoelmuwdaph) productive(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.fp0mj9hj1ksf) Program(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.96lt0mx9nerw) Progress(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.juyzgfdzf70v) Principal/ virtue(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.3356gyxj602t) Problem(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.2mhgd01cy8jq) Q(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.eskdqtaw0llu) r(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.1f2q719urxwc) Rules(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.c8e335dyc6vc) Rock bottom(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.7u7kdazaqogz) Religion/Religious(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.9alt4p7etckc) s(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.4s5pzi395kd) selfish/Self-centeredness(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.8a72uem6w2bh) Self-seeking(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.kwz9mv79m36e) spirituality/ Spiritual(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.toidhnnn4pwc) Spiritual awakening(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.3qmuu5x3uc7f) Serenity(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.dxsa27se5nrj) surrender(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.6xy1npkol6ct) Shear(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.7tewst6clkbp) Shortcomings(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.cai343hli7tz) Spiritual advisor(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.6cpeu2xn1uc5) Sponsor(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.ej8kmc7gbz2y) stinking thinking(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.nugcpw6hbpt4) Strength(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.v5vaxe6zytm1) Solution(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.odchjcmvchy1) T(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.5bz00ckqmlv) Trust(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.42kz8ay92hly) Thoughts(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.u97tyj2rbqb9) Tiggers(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.vrka3fvh9fog) Time(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.47srehu07t0c) U(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.6bfax01x3bkp) understanding(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.ce9bi77twik7) Unity(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.1a19aigz6yx6) Communality/ Camaraderie(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.qwggzrihm5cn) V(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.hijx3qudfaxd) Virtue(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.n4bplvijkktx) W(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.h9lg7kqmr2e2) willingness(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.li793wu7ocgg) Why(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.z1xrl77dju9l) Work(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.kuee7ot46xgu) X(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.71vlr2uqox7) Y(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.5dehfy8k8m4t) z(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.m88ytiaz7gls) A Act/action • Spiritual awakening:(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.3qmuu5x3uc7f) see Charter defeats(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.ghsvkf8ucs1z) • It's an action based program • Spiritual program • Not religious • No one is going to save you Addiction • Not being able to or knowing how to: Letting go of the pain. • Disposition of the mind. • Finding a way to run from what I have done. • Hopeless Problem(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.2mhgd01cy8jq) Advice 1. To never really know what someone matter of fact of what the motive is about how their goal is to be as such. • For we hope that we will not have the hurt from them and yet, it is still the fact that one can only know how they will act when they are acting • As such, that is why you can’t say that they are. 2. That no one knows what they're doing in recovery, so I don't think there is advice in recovery other than the The steps (36 principles themselves essentially) • As the only advice within recovery is the literature/ aa's group primary purpose: The message they carry. • Also See virtues of Tradition 4-6 (https://drive.google.com/open?id=16-yEOerOxob712nnCnWieZe05CrKgYlmmKdW1CcOITE) • For More spiritual than religious 3. There is no advice in recovery • For you don't want to be blamed for them not being able to do as you do • You haven't walked that path before, for they haven't them self • For would that then be the opposite of living a life in life's terms 4. Can't rest on your laurels/past actions • Such as the last serenity pray • Even if it's a second from before • See Manifestation(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.onb1pg9w814x) 5. Is like criticism • If someone doesn't ask you, regardless how constructive criticism you can give, it's still criticism • So essentially it's unasked advice • Little different when you're the boss • Because it's in a way. They did ask you because they're there and you're either boss • Yet in that same sense you don't have the right to steal their piece of mind and you don't have the right to give yours away • Is a kind of judging • As when you judge somebody through criticism, in a sense you're calling them stupid • For would that then not be religious (https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.9alt4p7etckc)and that spiritual(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.toidhnnn4pwc) 6. It's important to remember that everyone's recovery is different. What works for one person might not work for another. The information from one's recovery: can provide guidance and support, but it's not a one-size-fits-all solution. step 1 Gemini summary of folder(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1_WI4FrC2T2qLxjAGydcvsNo5RghGnwdCafy-1jDI4z4/editq) 7. Only take such from those that's are living the life that you want to live. Arresting • Putting it on a paper • Getting it out of your head • Stopping before reacting • See also Act/action(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.xr8ktwq9gtgb) • able to help you keep your side of the street clean/ keep your house in order/ then your garden • Example • What will simply be as you being able to yes in actions of putting it on paper essentially getting out of your head • as if you are supposed to get a new car and you only have one parking spot, are you going to invent a new interaction such as phasing machine/ splitting dimensions, to be able to keep that old car and get the new car • so essentially you have to create space for the new to come • or it doesn't necessarily matter how much within 100% of love that you get • if you can only receive the 10% of that 100% of the love that you are getting at every moment • such as why is unity and relating and not of the god of understanding so crucial • for them you'll only receive 10%, as what would be you'd only have room for 10% of that 100% of the love that you get at every moment • for that is why it's important to essentially keep the work in by the Act/action (https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.xr8ktwq9gtgb)by arresting your Addiction (https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.7kbczebibxgb)so that you can find the solution (https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.odchjcmvchy1) attitude • See also Time (https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.47srehu07t0c)for a better understanding of attitude • approach (see also Why)(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.z1xrl77dju9l) • For this is how we • act W(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.xr8ktwq9gtgb)ithin our reasonings • To help us to not react/ be within our stinking thinking(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.nugcpw6hbpt4) • or that of how we approach such willingness to trust in a higher power(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.ihrk3o97xp3r) Amends • The recovery sorry • Yes sorry had lost/we over used: od: overdosed • By what is out action • Maybe essentially to do things with honor? • Willingness to see both sides and take accountability for your actions B Balance • Also see Obsessing(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.iscmxrgmwkaw) • To better understand the overall Concept of finding balance and how it can get • out of whack • go to one extreme t(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.h710geuckuiq)o another Boundaries • Knowing when to say no • knowing your limits/ • Knowing when to say when • Per say this is in the slogan of this is a selfish program • even though Bill W wanted it to be a weed program and yet if you can't find sanity essentially or what it may be the unity Factor then you know I'm not sure all I do see it this moment to communicate within this is the fact that we were always doing selfish things right • to use in any way shape or form • and to bring harm especially to ourselves • being able to cope • A fancy way of saying respect Busy • See also religion(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.9alt4p7etckc) • that is like using • just like another form of running away, you never get anything done because you're always doing so many things that's why I know being productive is not preferable then being busy • getting so many things started but never finished • or it's all about maintaining, as being more productive (https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.fp0mj9hj1ksf)than busy • to actually get something done is to be productive(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.fp0mj9hj1ksf) • Unhealthy ways of coping(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.2s7krdlrxisi) • not having boundaries • Taking too much on your plate C career • Something you enjoy doing • Opposite of job(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.ow8rxulq5wed) control • See Obsessing(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.iscmxrgmwkaw) • Know as Controlling Common welfare • Welfare • To give it away freely • without expectations Upon how they are going to use this in practice the principles and all their affairs • Common • Everybody deserves it Clarity • Peace of mind • Higher power/god coping • asking for help but not knowing how • See also • Pain(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.o86g0qxfexjv) • sinking thinking(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.nugcpw6hbpt4) • for no matter what, when somebody's asking for help they may not say the word they “need help ,”but that's essentially what they are doing • They just don't know how to • Coping is healthy • Coping can become unhealthy is when you let your pain g(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.o86g0qxfexjv)et in the way and of your healing(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.7tewst6clkbp) • Unhealthy coping • Using • drugs • Is what helped you to get to this point. • Stinking thinking(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.nugcpw6hbpt4) • Actions based upon how you would be able to protect yourself • But how we reaction • Just the same as when we used, it is how we made it this far to get to the point of recovery and so it is not the drug/Addiction, that is ever been the problem: it is us that is the problem based around we judge something unworthy instead of taking responsibility upon how we had moments to reflect and act within action Based around respect instead of reacting. Charter defeats • Also known as Shortcomings(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.cai343hli7tz) • They are the same thing • It's when we come short • Contacting to much • Lack of trust • Sticking thinking • When we react D Demoralization • Something you can't explain • Not being able to identify • What helps us too the Solution (https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.odchjcmvchy1)and away from(for at least the moment) a Rock bottom(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.7u7kdazaqogz) • The hell that you are living Destination • Past actions of self: And only through the Journey w(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.dnaum7rq6wew)ill you see what the destination is all about • The destination is always there and yet essentially: it's who you are • that is where you're going • that is who you are • essentially it's where you're going to be going • it's through all the work that you put in that you get there Disease • Dis ease • Distance from ease E Ego • A Sense of self • Also see • spirituality (https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.toidhnnn4pwc) • faith(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.t9bdf36cp29w) Expectations • Expectations are only for you other than that it's a demand on somebody else • in a sense of from what is the common welfare,(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.5awlnqlaljc3) letting them put the work in so that they are able to have a spiritual awakening upon itself extreme • See also Obsessing(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.iscmxrgmwkaw) Experience • Experience is Recovery jargon for the • past • Memory • A prison of our own making • Only with hope (https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.d7fx9ljdtd5b)and the willingness to have God (https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.ihrk3o97xp3r)in your life • What you went through F Faith • Seeing that their is a future • See hope(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.d7fx9ljdtd5b) • See higher power(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.ihrk3o97xp3r) • Recovery jargon for the • See also time(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.47srehu07t0c) • future/faith/hope/Imagination • Present • Something that you have within acting upon not knowing how it's going to work out and yet you do it anyway • some slogans that come to • let go and let God • show to see other Miracle happens • this is a simple program for complicated people • As maybe this is just how you make your life simple to not overthink it and overall as such • Maybe another way of seeing it is bring yourself from ego o(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.vyey2uchk698)r as helping you within yourself from the ego(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.vyey2uchk698) Fellowship • Also see Virtues of tradition 4-6 (https://docs.google.com/document/d/16-yEOerOxob712nnCnWieZe05CrKgYlmmKdW1CcOITE/edit#heading=h.71w05at9j28n) • 12 step recovery group: as any 12 step or non 12 step recovery program • Safe place for the group t(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.c04f8daf77v)o be able • to come and shear(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.7tewst6clkbp) • To already know what is to be set up of how a group can recover • So anything can be seen as such, within and out of recovery; for this would be • how you can use to practice the principles in all your affairs • Alongside holding anonymity • A meeting of minds that go to a Fellowship (https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.lcozjyd91oj3)to be able to shear w(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.7tewst6clkbp)hat they are able to want to heal or as to be be what is Step 5,11 can be about. G God • See acronyms:(https://drive.google.com/open?id=1DPGT0ffQdv1lRXKvhw3T2VEDSNw4EB1wfJytTxGCQ0Y) Good orderly dictation • Faith • Energy (science jargon) / give time time (https://drive.google.com/open?id=1RqqBKi2hcRZVPRJrpjJO6PjTY0Phnn9LBrdsOdwSJHM) • Everything is energy • Energy can't be destroyed it can just change form • • Life • It's how we give it to life • As we can't do this by ourselves • From the standpoint of having to to getting to • We never had to do this my ourselves but we had to do it to be able to get to this point in life. • Giving you want you need never what you want • Undies what you want is to be of service to another • Being able to have clarity • See • Serenity (https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.dxsa27se5nrj)for seeing how god c(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.dkz6lv8c60sq)an bring you this • unity (https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.1a19aigz6yx6) for being able to see how to find serenity a(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.dxsa27se5nrj)nd god(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.dkz6lv8c60sq) • Something I can trust when I can't trust myself • God can be known asSomething that you ask for help Within but it's really the thing that is shaking your foundation, as that is what surrender i(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.6xy1npkol6ct)s such a key part in this whole entire recovery thing. Group • As to carry a message • Is the primary purpose of any group • See also Virtues of tradition 4-6 (https://docs.google.com/document/d/16-yEOerOxob712nnCnWieZe05CrKgYlmmKdW1CcOITE/edit#heading=h.71w05at9j28n)to find and understand how this can be as such. • the group can be • you and your higher power • be experience within group consciousness • Group consciousness can also be seen as a fellowship.(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.lcozjyd91oj3) • Acting within • As a team • As how you practice the principles H How • See also understanding(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.ce9bi77twik7) • See also why(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.z1xrl77dju9l) hope • Future • See also • Experience(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.3rfulhu2am4m) • Strength(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.v5vaxe6zytm1) • See also Obsessing (https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.iscmxrgmwkaw)for what we lead ourselves away from hope • Faith • See Higher power(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.ihrk3o97xp3r) • Imagination • Clarity Higher power • See also: step work outline context(https://drive.google.com/open?id=1N5Y5wvj0OzQDyIRMtXZ8OXGE3cbYurZGwuUiRb88PXE) • As what can bring you back to sanity • Something that is can • give back/help you to, have/keep your • peace of mind essentially • God • Acronym: good early direction • A word that really sums up: it's self • What might be what gets you out of • Your Head • Your Way • To help you Finding your why (https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.z1xrl77dju9l)to lead you into what life is, you are willing to run with/be a part of. • What can be by some would say but still then not as what I would say is something I would as agree as more than a starting point • For this saw based around, your recovery, your god of your understanding essentially; so no one truly can say that you're wrong, as that would go against tradition for and bring no value within what Tradition 5(see principals context)(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1StymZxUt79OcuzE0rcj-j6eKSrLY3gKgmA2vB9B82t0/edit#heading=h.n1i7h6s523zu) can be about as also at the same time those aspects of the work that you manifested b(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.onb1pg9w814x)y putting the work in would then say that your spiritual awakening i(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.3qmuu5x3uc7f)s not correct. for that is why it is a spiritual a(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.toidhnnn4pwc)nd not religious p(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.9alt4p7etckc)rogram • A door knob or • A door knob can open you up to your future • your shoes • Your shoes could take you where you want to go • But essentially you can control those things • So can you really have them be your higher power? • For it is the simple fact of what is when we are in control then it is how we lead ourselves into the life we wanted to run from. • So maybe down the line of what is being able to find a strong foundation is then you are able to, through a peace of mind, you will be able to act instead of reaction of based upon what is giving more then you can take(see 0. SLOGANS timeline)(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1RULQ8v75msGi6qeBnnTMemtFEe5VywfSUESOJdogiyI/edit) • That a higher power is something that you cant Explain, for it is the spiritual nature of what recovery is really all about • as we have lost the sight of spiritual matters essentially, as you can read within the big book of we agnostics • you will see that essentially so obsessed with the physical, that we have lost sight of what I would say is more real upon itself; or it is true that in the real world where trees produce oxygen and it's not just our thoughts that we are obsessing over essentially or having what dictates our reactions to things • for it is the action based around spiritual intentions will one be able to truly see what life is all about • as then would that then bring forth why is recovery as what it may simply be based around a spiritual and not religious I Importance • See why(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.z1xrl77dju9l) Isolating • See also Obsessing(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.iscmxrgmwkaw) • To have no hope(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.d7fx9ljdtd5b) • What will be as leading you into a relapse after your lapse J Journey • It's a path, • that will help you get to the destination w(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.hef33d8bwuny)ith you put in the work in • How you can find joy • Graduate • It's how you lead yourself into something Job • Something you have to do but you don't want to Opposite of career(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.bouri2gsaslp) L Leader • The power of what a leader can be is simply that of what is, leading someone because you showed them how it can be, • we can say and call that guidance and that simply of what is also • not calling someone stupid essentially • For what essentially kind of made me perceived at times as calling someone or being called stupid • this leads them to shut down • be closed off • and shoot the messenger instead of targeting the message essentially • they're not able to find relatability or Unity • and they can't understand the value in such matter of fact M manifested • Manifested Can also be seen as Manifestation(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.onb1pg9w814x) • Manifested can be the action after putting the work in • verb after the • Manifestation • is essentially within recovery jargon strength(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.v5vaxe6zytm1) • which is really the now moment • Work • Putting the working in • Actions upon you making the time to make progress • The life that you are living • because you put the work in • See also Slogan context (https://docs.google.com/document/d/1RqqBKi2hcRZVPRJrpjJO6PjTY0Phnn9LBrdsOdwSJHM/edit#heading=h.z97gn2nf2620)Traditions 4(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1RqqBKi2hcRZVPRJrpjJO6PjTY0Phnn9LBrdsOdwSJHM/edit#heading=h.z97gn2nf2620) • What could be seen as the Strength,(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.v5vaxe6zytm1) leading you to what would be next as hope u(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.d7fx9ljdtd5b)pon from what could seemingly be the Dismal and discourse of your experience(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.3rfulhu2am4m) • Can't rest on your laurels/past actions(see time)(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.47srehu07t0c) • Such as the last serenity pray • Even if it's a second from before That is why I don’t think that there is Advice (https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.jagdylbv1gmf)within recovery O Obsessing • Also see • Obsessing(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1SUNcnyuvU4bqWh-Tn1aUaZ2u_9_qHnZdnZNltAJbIss/edit) • Worrying • That will lead you into having a Trigger (https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.vrka3fvh9fog) • Thinking about it more than 1 time • Yes even at its simplest form thinking about it 1 time can be the start of obsessing • The same as self care can turn into Isolating,(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.ej10kx8qdg1v) as we did self care to Isolating.(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.ej10kx8qdg1v) • As what is to the point in finding balance (https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.emznl63f9ajy) • For you get to (https://docs.google.com/document/d/18yxQeJEAcQS4KGE4t6639xFFAKbsh3iCVFszQpKMG2c/edit)find the Balance (https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.emznl63f9ajy)you don't have to (https://docs.google.com/document/d/18yxQeJEAcQS4KGE4t6639xFFAKbsh3iCVFszQpKMG2c/edit) • Yes there is a fine line of setting a goal and thinking about it • to be able to visualize • it just comes down to a simple matter of fact of are you stealing life's ability/ your higher Powers a(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.ihrk3o97xp3r)bility to do its job • but you controlling t(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.3gyfr0lqn5sw)oo much with our Expectations (https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.wbb4x8bk309z)based around our Experience(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.3rfulhu2am4m) • Going from one extreme t(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.h710geuckuiq)o another as • Overthinking about it • Time thinking • For if you find yourself doing as such then you are. • Future tripping Into anxiety • pasting yourself into depression • The slogan f(https://drive.google.com/open?id=1jZ3DkoT1FeT4lpfouXEQuu6-rGJdhwdU)eelings aren't facts • Yes all feelings are Valid it's just is does the fear slogan false evidence appearing real and then we get to Q-tip quit taking it personal and being able to give it to God by letting go P Pain • See also Problem(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.2mhgd01cy8jq) • Is just hurt yet to be let go as coping (https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.2s7krdlrxisi)is just the way to help with letting go of that pain painstaking • Such as what it states in promise one painstaking • painstaking in the sense is really putting the work in • For really the pain in the sense of it, comes more Within step 4 • for step four is about really diving deep, • looking past the face value of Why we're holding on to this pain • reacting instead of acting • controlling too much • which is really indicated in the actor scenario of the big book Practicing • Practicing all these principles in all our affairs right • Creating a standing • for if you don't stand for something you'll fall for anything • principle (https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.3356gyxj602t)7: Being able to have a sense of understanding from others productive • Look at busy(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.b0ceq37c1cgv) • This is what we're doing now these days, is being productive • learning how to stay within the moment of the now • at least getting one thing done • such as making your bed • so that if everything goes awry that day you at least got one thing accomplished • getting into a routine • healthy ways of you know coping(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.2s7krdlrxisi) • that's essentially to say that's just coping i(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.2s7krdlrxisi)tself Program • See also shear(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.7tewst6clkbp) • A program is you • Yes it can be Fancy words on a piece of paper, yes: Until you come into the picture, • For this what we are doing is healing (https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.7tewst6clkbp)ourselves. Progress • Is growth • Painstaking phase: Promise 1 • As what is putting the work in Principal/ virtue • So also • virtues of tradition 4-6(https://drive.google.com/open?id=16-yEOerOxob712nnCnWieZe05CrKgYlmmKdW1CcOITE) • Rules • Can be seen as a • Virtue • Almost what is the • sum word • Example such as the short version of the serenity prayer • • For sometimes you only have a shorter time to get out of your sinking thinking • The reasoning behind the action of • The why(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.z1xrl77dju9l) • A reason • Action of based upon the reason’s for doing • It is the reality of how we are able to find peace of mind(higher power)(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.ihrk3o97xp3r) Problem • a dead end • opposite of a challenge • Addiction(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.7kbczebibxgb) • holding on to that pain (https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.o86g0qxfexjv) • knowing that was no gain because you get what you focus on • and there's no solution (https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.odchjcmvchy1) • when you don't change your attitude What we lead ourselves to Demoralization(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.e8z31djfirms) R Rules • Know in recovery as ideas(see within how it works) Rock bottom • The jumping off point • Can be from Demoralization • Leading you into the blueprint for living(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.odchjcmvchy1) • Death bed moment that can lead is to seeing us in our moments of Demoralization(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.e8z31djfirms) Religion/Religious 1. See also spirituality/ Spiritual(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.toidhnnn4pwc) 2. Waiting for someone to come save you Also See Busy(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.b0ceq37c1cgv) S selfish/Self-centeredness • knowing your doing okay, boundaries, • knowing how to ask for help Self-seeking • Within recovery this would be what is known as selfishness. • Selfishness • Maybe it can be the same, just not too sure as I am still praying for the answer about it being the same or different. spirituality/ Spiritual 1. See also Religion(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.9alt4p7etckc) • Also see ego (https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.vyey2uchk698) • A team/ a we program • A true definition/a closer: to what bill w. really wanted to be • What is leading you from self to the point of Living life on my terms and knowing you can't do this by yourself 2. Being able to see that Everything has value 3. Putting the work in • See also productive(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.fp0mj9hj1ksf) 4. “Some for hell and then coming back out on the other side would be spirituality” 5. Doing the right thing because you're doing the right thing • Just thinking about it: • Ask somebody that's in any religion why they're doing something • Just from the simple Christians, why are they doing it • because they don't want to go to hell • Ask an atheist why are they doing it • because it's the right thing to do. • Then who is really doing the right thing and for what? Spiritual awakening • How you Practice your spiritual nature and what would then be growing along spiritual lines because you practice a principles in all your affairs • Simple understanding • Ideas and actions coming together • Realization • A light bulbs moment/ an epiphany • An aha moment • Feel good moment • Moment of clarity • Clear moment • Finding your • why /And pursue • peace/ security • From the book: 12 n 12: over step 12: To give what you have been given • A god moment. • Seen the power of the now Serenity • Clarity • Being able to see god(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.dkz6lv8c60sq) • GOD: Good Orderly Direction • Being able to keep the door open to the Future, because we did not shut the door in the past and Nor wish to • a peace of mind • something to get you back to sanity • not being so serious • for that is a job and not a career • Freedom from the pain, to not complain; finding the solution. • Unlocking ourselves from the regret of not knowing how to cope and have boundaries • coping (https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.2s7krdlrxisi) • being able to ask for help without expectations • so we can find the answer • boundaries • being able to have respect self-respect simply to say surrender • when it comes to God(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.dkz6lv8c60sq) • Living life on life's terms,(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1RqqBKi2hcRZVPRJrpjJO6PjTY0Phnn9LBrdsOdwSJHM/edit#heading=h.z97gn2nf2620) in the way of the trust that you have with your higher power;(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.ihrk3o97xp3r) • knowing all things are going to work out Shear • To heal • Letting go of that pain • see also • Addiction(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.7kbczebibxgb) • solution (https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.odchjcmvchy1) • As when you shear you are really healing within a program • For you may never know that you're someone's hero and yet if you share they essentially know that they're not alone • that there is a solution and that everyone's wanting to find it and only through sharing can you do that • it's not isolate(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.ej10kx8qdg1v) Shortcomings • See Charter defeats(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.ghsvkf8ucs1z) • Where we feel short in trying to cope(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.2s7krdlrxisi) Spiritual advisor • Also see sponsor (https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.ej8kmc7gbz2y) • Someone that is able to help you like a sponsor but is not help you work the steps • Can be seen as • a peer to peer • Peer support Sponsor • Also see Spiritual advisor (https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.6cpeu2xn1uc5) • Someone that helps you work the steps • By giving you guidance and suggestions • See also advice(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.jagdylbv1gmf) stinking thinking • Old ways of how we reacted instead of taking action (https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.xr8ktwq9gtgb)(see also attitude)(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.4o7yn7k71gh) • Trapped in a dream of your own making • It's how we cope (see also coping)(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.2s7krdlrxisi) • yes in an unhealthy way of coping and yet it's still how we protect ourselves when in moments we were asking for help and not knowing how to ask for help and no one heard us when we weren't specifically saying I need help and even if they did here that underlining I need help they didn't know how to do it • Just the same as when we used, it is how we made it this far to get to the point of recovery and so it is not the drug/Addiction, that is ever been the problem: it is us that is the problem based around we judge something unworthy instead of taking responsibility upon how we had moments to reflect and act within action Based around respect instead of reacting. • See also attitude (https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.4o7yn7k71gh) • See also rock bottom(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.7u7kdazaqogz) Strength • Now moment/god moment/power moment. • Also see manifested(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.onb1pg9w814x) Solution • a design for living Problem(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.2mhgd01cy8jq) • blueprint for living • With in the big book T Trust • You might not know why something happens but it's okay because you don't have to, you get to show up and that's what it's really all about showing up don't leave before the miracle happens • Being able to see the underlining matters of what is there • What is being the Manifestation y(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.onb1pg9w814x)ou being able to have your higher power s(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.ihrk3o97xp3r)how up • The power of being able to Surrender (https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.6xy1npkol6ct) • Being okay to be come smaller and knowing it is all going to work out. Thoughts • See also spiritual wakening(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.3qmuu5x3uc7f) Tiggers • It's not that they don't and aret a thing; • It's more that they are a matter of pointing out what is, needing to be worked on and you getting to. (https://docs.google.com/document/u/0/d/18yxQeJEAcQS4KGE4t6639xFFAKbsh3iCVFszQpKMG2c/edit) Time Recovery time wording • Future • faith: recovery jargon • hope/ • Imagination • Anything can happen within the imagination. • Counting down how much time you have left • Present • Strength: recovery jargon • Now moment • Past • Experience: recovery jargon • A prison of your own making, through your mind • or it is your attitude t(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.4o7yn7k71gh)hat will set you free, mental or physical can be a prison as yet is your attitude that will set you free • laurels/past actions • Accounting how much time you have U understanding • See also why(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.z1xrl77dju9l) • This your how you are doing this • The reason Unity Communality/ Camaraderie • Being able to have a sense of understanding from others A fellowship t(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.lcozjyd91oj3)his can be see as group(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.c04f8daf77v) V Virtue • See also Virtues and tradition 4/5(https://docs.google.com/document/d/16-yEOerOxob712nnCnWieZe05CrKgYlmmKdW1CcOITE/edit#heading=h.uwlpaj54culb) • Can be simply understood as • Sum of all of your understanding, simply put into one word or that of a simple statement/ slogan • Sometimes you only have as such a so much time to put into it • So that is the value of the virtue of the short version of the serenity prayer • At the same time, can you remember the whole serenity prayer • So in that sense, it's all about how you are able to • keep your peace of mind • Stay in active party recovery • And get out of your sting of thinking • Just for that moment • To be able to keep doing the next right thing • To help you get to a moment when you do have the time to reflect • Or that depending on where you are in your recovery to just step back and let go and let God W willingness • How's you can see you coping (https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.2s7krdlrxisi)and how a Higher power (https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.ihrk3o97xp3r)to help you into having trust • It all about around your willingness as what is your why(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.z1xrl77dju9l) Why • See also • how(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.yy6yi9uiebzv) • Work(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.kuee7ot46xgu) • Importance o(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.ddym13xa25j)f you doing this • It's your because Work • Putting the work in • Also knowing as promise 1: painstaking • As see close to what is Motivation/the why(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.z1xrl77dju9l) • How we manifest things • As it is a spiritual program and it's about making the room for the new by transmuting, what it is, into sometime new • For it's all energy See god(https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vnwJEddVEE0j9pJsHvj4-IM5Wr2pz3kFASA1YQ62sKk/edit#heading=h.v0wdk4r0ozdf)